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1. First of all, I have to know….are you Wonder Woman in disguise?! Or do you have a clone? How do you manage to get so much accomplished?
1) No “Wonder Woman” here, ma dear! Is that what they’re calling “insanity” these days?
2) I would love to have a clone, starting at least 15 years retroactively….and she better hustle cuz the to-do list is GROWING!
3) And what makes you think I get so much accomplished? Most days I am cursing how much I do NOT get done!!! *wink*
I think it’s great for any of us to know that in a pinch, if there’s a family crisis, or we’ve inadvertently over-committed ourselves, that for a limited period of time you have the capability of pulling off management skills of ”Wonder Woman”. But as a steady gig, UGH! it’s “too much”, possibly indicates a psychological glutton for punishment, and can yield major stress-out and a generally over-cooked individual. I’ve pushed the edge on that and can testify, it’s not worth it to hear anyone praise you cuz, “You can do it ALL.” I prefer to bask in my flaws and inadequacies! LOL! But reaching that edge, doing too much, confronting it, helped me to know when to pull-back in some areas of my work and life, know when to say “no” louder or re-prioritize…..a valuable lesson to not learn too late.
To get-done the things that I do everyday, manage & support my family and businesses (which is what I think you’re asking me), I try really hard to economize my time, cut-out wasteful or mindless time-gobblers (or people), multi-task a lot, stay in-motion, stay up late, and start the day with a very large pot of high octane coffee. Sleep for me, is a near-death experience. :) But it is, quite simply, the busiest years of my life and sometimes there’s no getting around that to reach the next years. I “used to think” that the baby and toddler years with kids were the craziest and most sleepless of my life. Naw…the teenage years take the cake. But soon my kids will be grown, my time-demands and costs less, and I’ll have the opportunity to sleep, paint, and THEN wonder how I got through it. ;) About that time…the grandkids will start rolling around….
2. You have a thriving soap business-Simply Soap. Tell us how you’ve managed to grow that business into such a successful venture.
Thanks for the plug! Success with the soap biz was largely a convergence of “good timing”…really! Handmade soap was a newly revived craft-of-old 15 or so years ago when I started doing it, and becoming popular. I stumbled into making it over my own sensitive skin. People owning their own PC’s, introduction of the internet, and online shopping was in it’s infancy but growing in popularity. When there was only a handful of vendors like I was one of at the time, easily accessible online to get (what was) this unique product, you grow quick as a business! Then once you’re around a while, it becomes more an issue of “Do I really want to grow large, or stay smaller and manageable, on my own?”) Hopefully all the experimenting I did to create my soap recipes and designs help sell the product too…cuz I am so not a sales person!
My only regret is that I didn’t start along my path into fantasy art THEN, offering it online THEN….as well! No question it can be harder to break into a more saturated market “later”, rather than sooner. But EVERYONE has a niche and audience; you just have to find it and then hone in on it like a pesky gnat! :)
3. In addition to your Wild Oaks Art website, you now have Enchantasies. Your new art there is very different than what you’ve been doing. What made you take your art in this direction?
Yes, Enchantasies…I couldn’t resist! This is what happens when I get an idea, my juices flow, and I can’t stop myself! It’s a sickness. So I really ought not complain about “more work”! But I can’t sleep until I DO a thing I’m imagining. I, and now my daughter with me, have always been enchanted by the realm of the witch! A special website to contain art of that realm seemed a natural direction for me, separate from my more fairy-like art. It is still new, but I hope to add much more soon! I have many sketches for it stacked up on my art table …..not to forget those Post-Its stuck to the inside of my head!
4. Tell me what inspires you to create, as nothing else can.
“As nothing else can”….hmmm! Psssst ! Hey Kell…..Is it OK to say “sex”? :::chuckle::: (What’s more “like nothing else” inspiring than the love of good man? I mean, REALLY?) But in case that’s not OK…. :::clears throat, straightens glasses, puts hair back in a bun:::
…..my other most potent inspiration is the outdoors, specifically my favorite place in the entire world–Lake Tahoe where we vacation each year and hope to live one day! The West Shore, also referred to as “The Magical West Shore” is truly nothing short of pure magic…..the forest, the lake, Emerald Bay, Vikings Holm Castle, the surrounding smaller lakes, trails, rivers, creeks. When we hike amongst the magnificent trees, hear the wind, I get a spine-tingling feeling up and down my entire body. I feel like my eyes see clearer, my ears hear everything, and all of my senses are incredibly fine-tuned like an animal. I can palpably feel electricity in the environment and am compelled to reproduce that magic in some form on paper. I live all year on the memories and photos of our vacations there. Inspiring to me also, is the purity of spirit in children and animals because I sense that the world of fantasy (at least “my” version of it) would not settle for anything less than that purity, honesty, and wonder.
5. Pretend you have an entire weekend to yourself…no husband or kids, no soap orders to fill…what would you do?
Well, after I got done bawling my eyes out cuz I’d miss them so much and can’t stand to be alone… :::peeks out window::: Are they far enough away that I can stop bawling now???
:::rubs hands together in glee:::: I’d likely spring out of bed at the crack of dawn cuz times-a-wastin’ and I do so love morning, power down coffee till I’ve got a good set of “the shakes” goin’, exercise with the pups, shower, maybe even put my cuddly jammies back on or my lucky outfit, plug-in some Aerosmith or a good DVD in the workshop, dance a bit before a long day of sitting….. and work on ART! Sketching, painting, and not stop till I completed a piece! A WHOLE DAY finishing a piece! Woot! You have no idea what a thrill that is for me to do! I feel like I’m getting away with something! I’m getting-to-do, what I rarely get-to-DO!
Later I’d shop at my favorite little market and get some of my favorite foods to eat like artichokes, mangoes, salad with feta cheese and pine nuts, a dessert that somehow honors the heavenly combination of chocolate and caramel…maybe have a glass of merlot as I prepare the food. Make something special for the pups too, cuz they’re my buds and deserve a treat, too…and Lord knows they’ll stare me down till I flip them a treat anyway!!
I’d look with fresh eyes and decide if I really like what I painted or what needed touching up on it, fix it, dry it, scan it, post it on my site, make shopping cart buttons for it. Leave it alone for awhile while I hike with & wrassle the pups again. Come back, fix the painting AGAIN, re-scan it, re-post it. LOL! (typical) Plan my next piece. Start it. Start getting tired. :::yawn!::: Take a bath in candlelight–gotta use up all that soap in the house! Get into bed with my pups, one on each side of me making a fur samwich–I’m the peanut butter!. Talk on phone to hubby and kids who can’t stand to not call me while they’re away….say “I Love You’s” cuz you simply must never pass the chance to do so. Plug in music. Read till I fall asleep. Dream of enchanted things…ahhh…good day! Repeat the following day but also include a trip horseback riding. I don’t get much more inventive than that if I’m alone. Good times….for me by myself.
So…when do I get to HAVE that entire weekend??? You DID say that was part of the deal if I did the interview, Kelly. …..Kelly? ReMEMber?
6. OK, “Soap Witch”, what is one of the magic ingredients in your soap that makes it so different from other soaps? Besides the eye of newt….I already know about that!
Well…sheesh…you just gave it away Kelly!!! Remind me NOT to tell YOU where the keys to the kingdom are stowed! ![]()
The “other” magic ingredient in my soaps could only be the chanting I do over them. And this is foretold on my labels. “Handmade Old World style with Earth’s best offerings and of course, the murmurings and chants of the soap maker.”
There ya have it! Now don’t tell anyone or they’ll steal the secret ingredient and I’ve got a copyright on that!
7. One thing about you that few may know is that you are also a talented writer. What kinds of things do you enjoy writing about?
That is kind of you to accuse me of! If the length of this interview is any indication, I guess I must be at least a “writer”…..LOL!
Like art, writing is subjective…and rejection slips bountiful! I don’t write as much now compared to what I used to do….except in e-mails and posts! But writing, along with art is something I’ve done as long as I can remember; … poetry, stories, I used to be a staff writer for a local newspaper covering all the local school beats and neighborhood doin’s, wrote some articles for parenting type magazines. I took all the courses for The Institute of Children’s Literature and wrote a lot of children’s stories there for awhile when my own kids were smaller…none were published, but are part of our family collection of storybooks. I’d like to do more of that again…but BE published!! ;) A dream of mine is to collaborate with myself as a writer/illustrator on a children’s book! I have some preliminary ideas & sketches roughed out…but like many of my dreams I currently work on them mostly in my head, while I’m doing my “paying work”–he he
8. The Faery Blessing Bottles on your Wild Oaks Art website are enchanting. Tell us about the legend behind these bottles….
Thank you very much! They are fun to make and one of my best-sellers! I love botanicals, grow many myself, and this was (pardon the pun) a ”natural” for me to make! I like to collect books on faerie lore etc., and came across the legend attached to these:
Herbal intention or “blessing” bottles have existed in European and early American history & folklore for centuries! Legend has it that Celtic faeries in Arthurian times first bestowed them as gifts! They were lovingly created from the bounty of castle or faery gardens and given to friends & loved ones for protection and good wishes.
We’ve renewed this quaint, ancient tradition and offer them with the brightest of blessings and magic associated with each colorful and fragrant botanical layered in the bottle!
9. You have recently put together a group called The Fantasy Art Gathering. Tell us more about that and what inspired you to create it.
Yes! I’ve been deeply touched by how many wonderful artists I’ve met on the internet in MANY venues. Many kind souls who can be so helpful and supportive, regardless of level of skill, or at what point in your art career you are, or how sales-popular you are or aren’t; they are artistically inspiring, and just plain good folks who have been where you are, want to see other artists prosper! I feel blessed by their friendship and association. I decided to offer a website that honors artists who want to join, who share in that same spirit and mutual support of one another so that together we can share the availability of our talents and gain more exposure together! I simply offer a free artist page listing to each artist along with listings in art-by-theme categories to invite site visitors to be introduced to and find the kind of fantasy art they are looking for, and hopefully boost exposure for us all through reciprocal linking. There is also a sister My Space for The Fantasy Art Gathering! The website is ranking fairly high on search engines, and I have personally gained several new customers and ties to the art industry from the exposure this group has created, as well as new friends I value, and artists I admire! Anyone is welcome to check it out! http://www.wildoaksart.com/TheFantasyArtGathering.htm
10. Which of your paintings is your favorite and why?
Hmm. At the moment, I’d say “Swamp Sprite”, which my daughter Stephanie posed for. And I’ve always had a soft spot for “Finwe”, which my son Nick, as a little boy, was the inspiration for. Such an impy lil’ guy! I love turning real kids into fantasy! Plus, it immortalizes my kids in art! They are quite proud of their respective pieces they inspired, and I do so love to hear my kids brag about their mom to their friends. Sure beats when they’re raggin’ on how strict they think I am! *wink*
11. You’ve had the magical experience of chancing upon things (Fairy, when you were a child) others may never see in a lifetime. Tell us about this experience and how it molded you…
Yes…um, while you’re up getting the funny coat with the sleeves that tie at the back out of the closet….can you grab me something to drink, non-medicated?…*wink*
OK…if you REALLY want to know…..
When I was a child and we lived in New York, we had the most beautiful pink ornamental cherry tree in our front yard. In the spring and early summer when it bloomed it looked like a giant wad of cotton candy, the blossoms were so thick and fragrant. It was my favorite dreaming spot. I’d take a blanket there to lie and dream, draw, read or play. You could pluck the blossoms and suck the sweet nectar off the stem–yum!
One afternoon I lay there, looking up between the branches, and yes, I saw, an actual fairy. Even *I* thought I was luzenit…more so than YOU probably think, in reading this! I blinked, trying to be sure I had not dozed and was actually seeing what I was actually seeing! I felt paralyzed, trying not to move or even breathe for fear of scaring it away. It was the tiniest of creatures no more than 3-4 inches tall, female I presumed, by her feminine little face, leaf-like dress, and wings that were flitting as fast as a hummingbird’s. She seemed to be sniffing and sampling the blossom nectar, poking her finger in and out of blossoms, flitting from flower to flower…her wings softly buzzing. She stopped, looked at me what felt like a good five seconds or more, I just kept staring…wondering “What next?”, then she zoomed out from under the canopy of blossoms. I hopped up to follow…..but could not catch sight of her.
My heart pounded, I was breathless…..purely stunned! It took me a bit to decide whether to even dare move, or stay still to see if she was yet around and would re-appear! I felt dizzy! THEY DO EXIST!!!!!! I finally ran in to tell my mother who listened to my story and excitedly agreed with me that they do exist and encouraged me to keep looking for her!
I grabbed a large empty pickle jar from the Tupperware cupboard and my Brownie camera and ran out to stake out my watch. I stayed there all afternoon, all evening, well into the night, jar and lid in-hand, eyes peeled furtively. I sat there so long I finally dragged over a reclining lawn chair to lean my head back on cuz I was frozen in an upward stare and my neck got stiff. I was afraid to leave and miss anything, but had to pee desperately–thought I was going to explode! My mom watched for me, while I ran to the bathroom and she later brought me my dinner, but she finally made me come in for bed. But, I later snuck out and resumed my watch well into the wee hours of the morn when I fell asleep. No fairy.
I fruitlessly continued my watch several days and nights after that, growing more disappointed by the day, even altering my “methods” to perhaps improve my chances…..hiding the camera and pickle jar under a blanket, out of view……bringing an offering of juice and cookie bits on a tiny plate perched in the tree branches……plucking blossoms for her and squeezing out the nectar into a tea set cup so it would lure her back….all to no avail.
I dared not share my story with my brothers or older sister who would ridicule me no end I was sure, but I confided to my beloved Grandfather. Grandpa assured me that he believed me and that if a fairy appeared for me, I must be a very special and magical girl for the fairy to reveal to me that the secret is REAL! I took great comfort in his assurances and he remained one of my closest allies in life and heart secrets until he died a couple of years later. A loss I never quite got over….gone much too soon!
Although my fairy never reappeared to me, I learned over time, and by believing my Grandfather’s words, to be satisfied that I was gifted to see a fairy even once…to know that the fae realm is real. I’ve carried that gift with me always and am thusly a hopeless romantic for all things enchanted and magical…they live for me, tied by a heart string to that memory.
12. What drives you to create? What is the goal you are reaching for with your art?
Well, I do believe things happen because they start as germ seed ideas in your head, then you CHOOSE to take steps to follow-through and MAKE them happen. You CHOOSE to create and not wait till the mood or inspiration moves you necessarily. I love making art, always have, and will always do it in some form till I die, whether I become largely successful with it or not. But that begs the question…what is “successful”? I feel “successful” when I have an entire day to paint and capture an idea on paper exactly as I saw it in my head and it is now hanging on my own wall! Thrills me! But most thrilling is when another human being enjoys what I’ve created and wants it for themselves! Do I dream of being wildly successful in the usual, commercial sense of the word? Yes, who doesn’t play with that fantasy? And um, not sure…… for me, life is about more than money and the headaches associated with making it and managing it.
I love soap making, will always do that, but it IS labor-intense. I would enjoy a balanced schedule with equal time for art. I want to DO art more frequently so I can more quickly improve, stay sharp, produce art often and have it become viable enough a venture that I might transition out of soap making full-time, into a half-and-half schedule, at least. Yet I hope art as a business never becomes so busy that I don’t have time to paint because I’m so busy managing the business end. But I s’pose that would be a good problem to have to sweat over!
Yin and Yang. All things are about balance. I have at times heard younger artists without the responsibilities of marriage, children, or other businesses speak of their freedom to paint all day professionally and I’ve wistfully envied them that glorious freedom. But my time for that will come again…in time. In the meanwhile, I have other dreams I chose to pursue like marriage, children, other businesses, and I’m fulfilling my commitment to them and very much enjoying those gifts in my life! You don’t get a second chance to make the most of your kids’ childhoods, time they are home. Years are coming very soon when with my kids will be all off to college or on their own, I’ll have more art time and we’ll see where it goes from there…..stay tuned, I’m not dead yet! Hehehe…. My mom began painting in her 70’s and is now blowing me away with her talent. When I asked her why she didn’t start sooner, she said cuz she was so busy taking care of all of us, she just never thought she had time. I don’t want to wait till I’m 70 to paint….so I’m satisfied with what little time I make a point to use now! ![]()
13. What is your most beloved holiday and why?
Halloween, of course! Because it’s magical, a time closest to the veil between the spirit world…..and because I DO so love to fly!
Now ENOUGH ::cough, choke, gag::: about me, thank you very much Kelly, but when do we get an interview with YOU?!?!?! I’d be most happy to ask YOU the questions! ::evil grin::
::: chants::: Kel-LY! Kel-LY! Kel-LY!
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